and the word is EXPECTATION.....

Finally a got something which updates my blog and as written on the top, the word is expectation.
well, the literary meaning of the word expect is require someone to fulfil an obligation.
I had seen many people forgetting the meaning of this word, and many a times they use this word in an entirely wrong sense.
Many such relationships according to me come to an end just because one of two is unable to FULFIL THE OBLIGATION that is required to keep IT going.

Well this part is known by everyone. But where they are wrong???

The next thing is said by many of them is I DONT EXPECT ANYTHING NOW, and this rule is universally applied to every relation.

Well, I say if there is no expectation in a relationship, then that relation is not meant to exist.

If I am a friend with someone, somewhere I see that person to favour me because he is capable of that. And if the person is not capable, then I’ll definitely be won’t be waiting for his favour.

What is this favour??? Nothing but I’ll say I Expect.
To keep a relation going expectation is needed but where people go wrong, they forget to make a level.

People with broken heart usually say this thing.

Well just one advice for them, think.... why are you in a relation.... because the other person favours you unconditionally, because he expects that you’ll give him more love and warmth if you accepts his favour. And same thing you expects that he’ll favour you.
Say it, if you need a person to favour you...

Well people, come on, expect with the person you are in relationship, but do mind the level.......

Till the next time, take care and keep posting comments........

Get busy Living or get busy Dying

Its quiet a time now, I wrote something in my blog here..... After a week here, the first thing I decided to do is to reach for my blog, and write somethingS dats are ever continuing to cross my mind......

Saw this movie, shawshank redemption.... nd man, wat a movie!!!! after a long time I really enjoyed such a nice movie nd somewhere it touched me inside..... hats off to Andy Dufrene.... fuelled with power packed dialogues, each words is so beautifully narrated, I just like to enjoy it over nd over again.....



As for life, it is just flying like anything.... having that one good thought in ur mind, that makes u fight with urself nd nobody else.... waiting for that 1 thing u dont wanna have, but still somewhere u want it, nd finally u regret y it came to u, nd u do every possible thing to loose it again...... gives u pleasure and pain, da same time....

People say life is to enjoy, but they themselves ruins their life, just to seek that perfect enjoyment..... nd I saw many of them..... countless.....

well I say, accomplishment of pending deeds, gives u perfect reason to enjoy ur life.... nd god, I am enjoying my life like anything.....

and as I once said to this broken lady, "life is beautiful and busy"...... so be busy making it beautiful..... now I complete myself....

till the next time... read it over nd over again..... nd enjoy.....
Chao...

its november 13th...

Its 3 days I celebrated my bday alone in my hostel room with a pack of lays of my fav taste and a couple of phone calls and thinking why the hell these people are congratulating me today... I mean, I know m born, but what had I contributed to these people that they are so happy on this day....

Okay, these are my fnds, relatives, my well wishers nd so nd so nd so.... but, occasionally, we all are somehow dependent on each other, thats y v r here.... but still, nobody said, "thanks for coming to this world, if u vernt here i would've been alone, i would've been nothin blah blah blah"....

U might think m some kind of depressed loser, which I am not, thinking and saying such things on my bday and expressing them in my first post of the blog...... but did u ever had any thoughts in this one, that on each bday instead of being getting elder each year and somehow getting closer to DEATH, wat else u contributed to any one in real sense....

its not m afraid of death, but y actually m here for......
and as i say "EVEN DEATH IS ONCE IN A LIFE TIME EXPERIENCE".... well this is getting -ve for most of ppl outta thr....

I am happy to be in this world, but what had I done for anybody....

I always loved this word 'I'.... it some how, i dont kno how, gives me strength when I know nobody is with me (just to share my feelings), but I is still thr to listen me, love me and to criticize me....

People say 'I' is used by egoistics.... but 'I' say that 'I' is used by people who know how to love and criticize themselves...

finally, i got something from this, as for next bday, iI v'll do celebrate it but not just being on this earth, but for all the accomplishments that I will achieve this entire year.....